So2,

DOn't give her the time of day in your head.
It isn't worth it. She is trying to piss you off and it's working. She is hoping you will argue with XH about it and then she would look better.
DO NOT BOTHER WITH HER.

How are things between you and XH going, is he coming around?

J


You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez