All hope is lost/help

[Evie]

8 months wow... Did you stay in contact in that time, how did you DB in that time?

I just have this low feeling that in 8 months time my H will have moved on completely, how do you convince them otherwise?

We were texting backwards and forwards yesterday trying to to plan xmas presents and access to the boys and in the end i said 'why don't we just meet for dinner on saturday and discuss all this', as he never answered I assume he doesn't want to?. He was the one 2 weeks ago that said to let him know when i was ready to go for dinner and now i am, he isn't. I don't know whether to contact him or not contact him? I haven't contacted him unless i've had to, H has been contacting me numerous times a day, but now he is stopping doing that so much after yesterday, maybe because he knows I have been avoiding most of his calls, now i'm confused whether he is cross, just giving me space or has moved on and not bothered.

Today is a low day, I miss him. It was hard when he was at home, it's easier now the pressure has been lifted, but I still wish we could talk. We do talk, but it's in passing, we don't sit down and have a conversation, he seems happier to talk via phone/text rather than face to face, why is that?

Do you think he is struggling himself?

Azhira said she showed a lot of interest in her H's new place and goes shopping for furniture etc, She said it opens up a new topic of conversation and new interests. I haven't shown any interest or asked any questions about his new place, do you think I should?

How are things with your H?

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