omg, neph. I don't know what to say. I'm so sorry I didn't get a chance to jump on sooner.
first, you did not kidnap him. he went willingly.
I think sara has given good advice. offer him breakfast, see what he does. it scares me that he ever punched you at all (wow), but I would think if he was going to go that route, he would have done it last night, right? (no idea, just guessing). but your safety and the safety of your children is the most important thing.
(((HUGS))) I wish I could do something/say something. you are dealing with so much right now. the little ones are a handful enough w/o your H being a complete ass on top of it.
hope you are able to sleep some, and that in the morning, things will be brighter.
let us know how you are doing. will be thinking of you.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
Usually not... I don't think it will get violent. We did have a few episodes pre-sep. He punched my once, but the five days in jail has really made him careful. He'll leave before he gets that worked up.
Neph, Cut him loose!! Getting physical is never acceptable. Remember, he has the issues here. You are the sane one. I for one wouldn't drive him back. He could walk. And I wouldn't make breakfast either at this point.
