Now I've done it...again #5

[Sara]

Yeah. He's not worth fighting over. You need a man who will help with the children, not run away from children.

[Sara]

Honestly, he sounds like the type who might be hard to get rid of. If you can get him to move on, let him go. He will drive you crazy.

[nephartiti]

He already is driving me crazy! The thing is, he can't really move on with this person. Well, not completely unless the boyfriend leaves.

He is moving around on the couch, so I might have to log off in a hurry.

[nephartiti]

I don't think he will be hard to get rid of. He wants to "be left alone". I think he in sincere there. I have been the one trying to keep connected by sending pics of the kids and such. No more, though. We are doing fine without him. Really, we are.

[Sara]

He's not violent at all is he?

[nephartiti]

Usually not... I don't think it will get violent. We did have a few episodes pre-sep. He punched my once, but the five days in jail has really made him careful. He'll leave before he gets that worked up.

[Sara]

The most important thing is for you and the children to be safe. when he wakes up offer him breakfast, see what he wants to do, let him do it.

[nephartiti]

Sounds like a plan. He's just a little passive aggressive buggar. Half the time he does exactly what he doesn't want to do, just to make things difficult. Oh, well. That will be his problem.

Thank you again, Sara.

[Sara]

yes, he has problems. You have enough children already. He is one more.

[nephartiti]

I'm going to try to go lay down again. I think I have about an hour before I have to get up again. It's Halloween, and I have to have a little energy to have fun with the kids. They are the ones that matter.

He's such a loser.