Wow, Neph! But if he went willingly with you, it's not kidnapping. Still he is a lying, sneaking, everything else. I think you should wash your hands of him. This kind of immaturity is not going to go away over night. I don't think he is fixable. You are still very young. It will be hard raising 3 kids on your own, but you can attract a better husband. You will have to be careful next time to find one who does really want to be part of a family.
