Hi - interesting points - mine is a droplet to the point of a dribble too. Would have more contact [still not much] but is a mean one, so I don't want it. Being spewed over isn't good for my detachment or self esteem, particularly if they get stuck in a groove of lbs fault recitation. NC is definitely about me. Not to punish him.
Yes, I wonder if those that see us as mothers are the ones that have problems in touching us. . . .hadn't thought of that.
In general I would agree with you about ML, except that there are some posters whose h's have returned who felt it kept up the connection . ..and helped in re-establishing the r. So, as I said, in MLC all bets are off. A