I had the affair and now my marriage appears Over

[Michael Mc C]

Oh boy. Just curious, did you end the affair BECAUSE your wife said she had enough? It doesn't matter much but does kind of give an idea of your frame of mind.

First recommendation is to read Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy (I have only read the latter). I don't know what advice to give you for right now though.

How long has your wife known about the affair?

It may seem like prying but more details may be needed to get a better idea of where both you and your wife are at:

How long have you been married?
How many kids/ages?
How long was the affair going on?
Has there been a history of problems/concerns during your marriage?

The details will be very important in trying to help you out.

The folks here are very helpful, but I'm not sure how often the spouse who had the affair shows up here. But marriage is marriage and you're here for support and guidance.

I have faith that everyone will do what they can to help you through this.