Casey..You probably heard from me enough but I am going backwards in time to read more of your posts... I find you interesting and feel inclined to keep adding my two cents. I just read what you right and certain things leap out to me...

You are the ONLY one who can make you feel bad. Remember that.. you seem to be filling your head with all these assumptions and second guessing yourself like you are constantly on the receiving end of a tennis serve. Try serving for once... maybe your H won't feel so inclined to take so much advantage of your good nature.

You seem to be like me in many respects because I know you want to do the right thing for your daughter so that means putting up with the crap your H is throwing at you... It just seems like you have to put your foot down and make it all unacceptable.

It;s getting late here and I'm getting weary-eyed.


Me: 37 (2nd M), H:35 (2nd M)
Our DSs (4, 1.5)
M: 4 years