More complicated than I imagined...

[Michael Mc C]

so, does everyone here find that they spend (or have spent) a lot of time coming up with theories as to what REALLY happened? I mean we've all read the books, we've read these posts and we've done non-DB'ing research as well.

I found myself raking leaves tonight with D11 (wife was invited - one of her favorite kid activities, but declined). I had another 'ah-ha' moment in which another piece of the puzzle finally came to me and helped give me a clearer picture of what got my wife and me here.

So I've been piecing things together but have realized that there really isn't too much I can do with this "information". She doesn't want it. I can't do anything about the past. I guess it will help in the future to help keep me from repeating past mistakes but really, the "why" doesn't seem to be nearly as important now.

Just curious.

This stems from a conversation W and I had late this morning but I'll have to post that one later. In essence, she doesn't care why we're here.