I didn't post here yet but I have read all the threads I could and I find yours very helpful.
Your resolutions keeps me thinking that it is possible to survive the mess if it does not work out.
Since you like songs I thought it wouldn't hurt to leave you with some poetry by one very famous SA poet, very fond of Copacabana. May be its girly. But I do have a point.
"For all my love I will be thoughtful. Anticipating, so careful, always and so complete, That even if I face enchantment Let my thoughts be more overpowering I want to live it each moment and in its honor I will spread my chant and laugh my laughter and cry my tears To its sorrow or happiness. And so when later I am searched By death the anguish of the living Or loneliness the end of a love I will be able to say about what I did That it is not immortal as it is a flame But let it be infinite while it lasts."
At least we are blessed in this life to have known love. And I am sure we will have lots of Copacabana's in our lives.
