today J is picking d up from ASC care. I rang her to confirm plans once I got to work this morning. Everything is fine, though J did say that she discovered that she doesn't have to play netball till 9pm so she wont' be taking my d up to the gym where h works. I'll just pick d up from J's place.
Now....in my letter to h yesterday I said d would be up at h's work. I did also ask him to tell me if he wanted to pick d up from there that wwas fine and let me know so I could inform J.
He hasn't indicated in any form that he was going to try and see d tonight, so I shouldn't need to tell him of the change in plans. However.....if I don't tell him of the change in plans and he does go to the netball courts to see d (and doesn't find her) - I'll be in the poo AGAIN for not keeping him informed as to d's whereabouts (fallout from the babysitter debacle the other week - he demanded that I tell him d's whereabouts at all times - if not with me).
so I feel damned if I contact him to tell him (even if it is a txt) and possibly further damned if I don't.
I was going to txt, but I don't want him to call me back. I could email, but he might not read it in time (he doesn't have an office job) I don't want to call him. I don't want to talk to him at the moment. It's too chilly. How do I draw the line between what's sensible info to pass on and what he will think is my lame attempt to have connection with him (and then give him a chance to make me feel bad again and misinterpret my actions)
