What about Teeny-Bopper for his alien persona? H when he's normal, TB when he's reverting to high school? I agree--no bad names for H, but the alien persona...well, I think finding something that allows you to detach and sort of see things in a humorous light is helpful. Humor is healing!

Have fun carving your pumpkin. I am SO not the Halloween type. Just want to get through tomorrow with my students and their sugar highs....

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!