I wonder why WAS typically 'affairs down'? I'd like to know why ... or if there is any specific reason! Yes, mine did 'affair down' ... way down! Is their self-esteem so low that anyone will do? Or perhaps because they need someone that they can be a 'savior' for? What's up with that?
Anyway, LO, I'm glad your H is following your request to not have your child around OW. I said in my own thread tonight pick and chose your battles. This is one I would fight, too. Fortunately, I don't have to deal with OW being around my kid in my sitch!