Oh, and Butterfly, I personally had a QLC too (like you said you went through a mini-MLC).. right after college. Recently, when H and I were reflecting on that, he noted that my constant rejection of him sexually put him off and he built resentment for me on that. It is true, it seems like, even though that was...hmmm 7 years ago, his initiation of sex dwindled so much.
I wonder how your mini-MLC might have affected him?
