GD, I gotta hand it to you. You've gone from someone who wanted to control your W with lots of anger issues to someone who is still willing to take his W back after she moved onto a boyfriend and now you feel guilty -- after 8 months of separation -- for having sex with a hot 19 year old. You are my hero.
I have no serious advice for letting someone down, since I've never actually been in that situation. I would hazard a guess though that honesty is the best policy. Straightforward, not blunt, but kind. I think you can manage that quite well.
Refraining from piggish comments through great intestinal fortitude.
I also think this will help you detach from your W. Now, the same thing could've been achieved with some heavy duty flirting maybe, but you do really think about your W a lot. In the last few weeks, you've seemed to move away from that.
If I were to guess, based on nothing but intuition, she's probably questioning her choices. As you say though, she has a lot of pride and you both caused each other a lot of hurt. As you tell everyone, she may or may not come back. I think you're ready to stop thinking about how your decisions are going to affect her and live for you and your kids, while leaving that door open in the back of your mind.
Keep on dancin'
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
