I haven't a clue how to weigh in on the persuing a new R, but at least for yourself it seems that you're managing to move past everything; or at least, most things.
(I'm sorry I don't comment much on other people's threads, esp. when they comment so much on mine. I guess I just don't have as much advice to give as folks here do. So, supportive comments when they seem called for is about what I can do )
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