I'm starting to think my H is going to drop out of the kids lives. He hasn't seen them in over two weeks now. It is easier this way. My kids are young and they are ok. I know it will hurt when they get older. They will never understand. I don't understand either.
This is the hardest part. No matter what, we will always be connected to these men. It does get easier in a way, but it is always a hassle (in my experience with S9's dad). We have it pretty good. We are "friends" and our families get along. I get along with his wife. She treats S9 well. It is as good as it can be, 7 years after our break up, but it is stil hard.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9