What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

I am seething and in shock.

I just went to my step daughters volleyball game. She goes to the same school where OW teaches. There was really no need for OW to be at the game, she teaches kindergarten.

I arrived and was sitting there with exh's first exwife and some other people. Exdh wasn't there yet. In walks OW!!!! I lost my breath. What does she do? Walks up and sits down with exh's exw and starts talking to her. 3 feet away from me! I didn't say a word to her and didn't even look. She was saying how depressed she was a she was alone and her dad is dying! After about 5 minutes she goes and sits in another area with her friends.

EXdh walks in and had to have seen her. He came up and sat right next to his ex FIL and they were talking about their trip. I was irritated because I thought he wasn't sitting by me because she was there. After a couple of minutes he came and sat by me. I was so relieved.

OW is so gutsy! What more does she need to see? I am growing with this pregnancy every day, he is with me all the time, sits next to me in public, etc. Why is she hanging on? There are way more guys out there with less baggage.

I was very happy that exh didn't blow me off. I would have been livid. I didn't even say a word about it to him. I wonder what he was thinking?

Ok, now I can breathe again.