hey neph, personally, I think that is great. don't pursue further, but good for you for recognizing that about yourself, and for having the courage to say something.
no more calling, but honestly, db or not, I think its great.
eta, hey, if time marches on enough that you do consider a vibrator, there are plenty of discreet ways of obtaining one. and while they are not the real thing by any means (not in my book, anyway), they can really take the edge off.
(of course, i am cringing in horror at the idea of finding one in my mother's drawer. ack!)
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
