Ok, gonna let you in on a little mlc trivia. There are actually sections in some books on mlc that tell the person in crisis, Go For It All. Even more professional titles by recognized experts say this is the time to give in to the desires and live through that lost youth so they will be able to finally leave it behind.
In theory, all that crap is fine. In reality ... you go girl!
Part of the reason I like your thinking is it will prevent you from being destroyed like so many victims of mlc. If that is what your H is going through, you are a victim. The extent to which you allow yourself to be destroyed is what will set you apart from the rest.
You hang in there. Be calm. Be honest. Be the survivor. If he is determined to experiment with life, don't be his guinnea pig.
