Your thread with reports of what your H got up to sent chills down my spine way, way back, if you remember. I am sure my posts in the past seemed overly pessimistic to you. I would advise you to be prepared for the long haul, regarding your son seeing the light, though you have my best wishes for him seeing it very soon.
Hugs,
Livnlearn
PS I read this a long time ago and it was like a glimpse into the future in some way. I can't seem to locate the earlier pages that give info about the run up to the custody battle.
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates