That sucks about the furniture. That's the bad thing about doing things online. For the most part I've had good transactions, but you just never know.
On your name for H. Definitely no bad names. the more you focus on the bad things about your H, the worst view of your H you will end up having. When I was in this part of my sitch, there was a LOT my H annoyed me with, but I tried to make sure I focussed on the positives, very little of them-but there were some, that he was doing.
I do agree that H will have to quit his job and phone, and I think that will almost need to be a requirement before getting back with him, if that happens, at least the phone.. the job part will probably take time (speaking of, what happened to that other job he was thinking about?) However, none of that should be mentioned at all unless he comes to you wanting to reconcile again.
Carving the pumpkin will be cool! Do you have plans for it yet? My aunt makes the craziest pumpkins ever. She has templates that she uses, and oh my gosh, it would take hours to accomplish.
I still haven't forgotten to send you a pick of my wall, just haven't gotten around to it yet! sorry. It does sound like you should probably not put a huge amount of effort into the room though. But painting the room might be a relaxing, unwinding thing? And it doesn't sound like it's too big of a job for you to handle. You could paint just the bottom half or top half? or maybe one wall to make it easier.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
