D7 brought home another upsetting progress report from school on Friday. Says she is not interested in school. I tried to speak with her but didn't get any answers as to why. I asked if she wanted to speak with the school counselor if not to me and she said yes. She was almost crying. And she is not the one I expected to have trouble with. Had a heart to heart with S11 and didn't get anywhere. He is too much like his F. Said he would never talk to anyone. I told him about my therapist and support group and anti-depressant past. He was adament(?) that he will not talk to anyone. These are the innocent victims of this BS. It makes me so sad and angry at the same time! H hasn't seen any of these progress reports. Fri is party night for him so he doesn't see the school work then. I haven't mentioned it. Teacher conference for S7 is in 2 weeks. I marked it on the calendar but I am making a point not to remind H. It is not my job anymore to be his secretary. This is what being independent means. He needs to learn the hard way what life is about if he really wants to be alone. It is no longer my job to remind him of appts, etc.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
