Just to reinforce what Puddle said, Joan, focus on you. You have to stop worrying about what your H is doing. Puddle's smart people, especially since I agree with her points
Good for you for losing weight. Keep it up and keep doing it the smart way with diet and exercise and not the "I can't eat because my stomache is in knots" DB diet. He's noticing. That's good.
Biting your tongue until it bleeds is almost always a good idea.
Lost, man, that's a harsh comment. Sorry you had to hear that.
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
