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just wish I had had that crystal ball to realize long ago how futile this all was.


"doing the right thing" is never a wasted effort.
I dont think anyone can do it, without some hope on their side.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle