I want to start over fresh, like we died and were reborn.. [/quote]
That is an excellent quote... I would start there. I've said this to my W before. I wanted her to understand that this M is dead and all the baggage that was with it (hers and mine). We can either create a new M or we can go our separate ways. Unfortunately for me.. she's currently going in the separate way part.
You need to be prepared for that as well. That's where GAL, getting noticed and getting your attitude and ego where it belongs helps.
I completely understand where you are coming from.. I know it's like a parent telling a child "You'll understand when you get older" but it does get better. You need to know that this isn't all your fault and you deserve to be treated better. You won't feel that way until you get out of the guilt trap you are in. She will crash, but she'll have to do it on her own. You can't do anything to affect that other than make the flight longer. [/quote]
Well that is what I really want her to know..but I know that she is already gone, and I am dead..no saving.
