Dropping the line vs. differentiation

[MJontheMend]

I apologize if I offended any Type 4s. They make excellent friends, seriously hot short-term sexual partners and wonderful creative collaborators for me but I simply do not understand what it is that they want from me when they get all introverted and gloomy. In a friendship, I can just back-off until a Type 4 is ready/willing to be my playmate again. In a LTR, I seem to err whether I seek further intimacy or give them space. So, I give up.