Here's what I really want at this point in my life. I just wish I could find a guy who would have sex with me 3x a week, go out with me to do something fun once a week, be reasonably affectionate to the level of "I am really quite fond of you" and reasonably validating to the level of "nice jeans". I am fully self-aware of my toddler nature and what I need is CONSISTENCY. I am willing to compromise on quality/preferences and/or quantity of food if I can just be assured that dinner will be served at 6. I wonder which enneagram type is most reliable?


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver