That is some serious light fun you've set up for yourself, and it even comes with holding cute members of the OS? That's impressive. Um, what kind of dancing is that again?
That would be Blues dancing -- still working on getting good at it, but am enjoying the process!
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You sound great. Even if you're still obsessing about W, you're clearly able to stop thinking about OM, and that's pretty big.
Yeah, that is big. Once in a while the horrible thoughts sneak in, but it's more out of disgust because I know W can do so much better than him. I think I killed her self esteem of the years by belittling her during our many fights. Wish I could go back and do it all again with my changes intact, but can't, and the only thing I can do is forgive myself and let it go. I'm getting better at that, but it would be easier if W ever chose to tell me she forgives me. I know I've forgiven her for her past mistakes in our R/M, and have told her so. I may never hear it from her, and I'm going to have to accept that too.
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Did you catch my idea of using the strategy you used on sop's posts to stop the brain going to those bad places? I'm still perfecting it, but it's pretty good!
Would that be the jokes and recipes idea? Explain a little bit on how you apply it to not thinking about the WAS.
More updating to come -- just breaking up the posts.
