Think about it for a minute... the reason she doesn't want to hear about it is she feels guilty. She doesn't want to face facts.
Trust me.. I'm there with you on that. To this day my W claims she didn't cheat because the paperwork says we were separated.
I know you are hurt and want to know and want to forgive her.. here is my advice. If you want to forgive her, then let it go for now and forgive her. In the long run it will make things easier for both of you.
By bringing this up now, you will only push her away faster. She doesn't want to face what she has done.. especially not with you. Trust me on that. I still don't know all the details, but I have forgiven my W. I had to let it go.. for her and for me.
I thinks that is great advice. But I want her to know that she hurt me and that I really do know what happened and that I can forgive her.
