Help me thru this sitch

[Pudmuddle]

THANK YOU PUDDLE!

I am so glad I chose to write this here instead of actually say it. I know my convos are still all full of "Him" things and I am trying desparately to work on the wording, that is so hard!!

I can see now you are right about everything that I wrote, and I appreciate the advice about the 48 hours - I will bite my tongue until it bleeds.

Sincerest Thank yous Puddle.

On another note: I was standing in my closet deciding what shirt to wear with my new size 12 pants I had on(I've lost 15 pounds) and he came in to iron his shirt. I didn't say anything but I could feel him staring at my back. He said" Are those new pants?" I said "why yes!, size 12s!!" And he said "Yes, I can see that!" So I chuckled and said "were you looking at my a**?" (an inside joke we have with each other in the days of yore) and he said: "Yes, yes I was". Then I left the closet chuckling to myself. HE IS NOTICING. a baby step...