Lets try thing again!!!!

[Heartbroken]

Jak,

They did not even talk to my H - we just printed the registration paper and I answered everything.

I don't think you need to give it as an ultimatum. If you are not feeling good with your direction in healing then he needs to step up to the plate to help you get there - this is one way to phrase it to him. It's not counseling - no group discussions. Talks between you and him alone!!! If he's in this R for real he needs to consider your feelings at more than a superficial level...

HB