Yeah... we've been in this "stage" since mid September. She really has been sitting on the fence. I just threw a rock at her and knocked her over. I've had an attorney since then and it's going just fine. She's been avoiding it because it will end up costing her. She's got a sweet setup now where basically I pay everything (including child support) and she only pays for her Apt, cell phone and related expenses. Now she will be looking at:
1. Car insurance
2. Health insurance for her
3. Half of the bills

Which I can assure is the only reason she hasn't pushed this. I think her "Don't count me out" "I don't want to file" BS has been simply out of greed. See how long she can keep me strung along.

Some day she will realize what she's done.. I imagine we will be friends, but not sure we could ever be more.

I sincerely hope you all have better luck than I. I can't afford to sit around and let her do this to me and the girls. Someone has to be the responsible adult, and that's me at this point.

If anything new happens, I'll let you folks know. I'll follow some threads and post where I can.

Thanks!!