Separated and W has a BF.

[Michael Mc C]

So let me get this straight. She's going to file because YOU have pushed her into this? I just don't get it sometimes (most times). Was she expecting you would just put up with everything without movement one way or the other? I feel for ya...

Damn. Bet mine will do the same now. I just asked her if she's looked into what is involved in a D. She hasn't. "We're not financially secure enough for that." I told her that in order to properly prepare for HER divorce, she should at least get an idea of what's involved.

Hated having that conversation but if she hasn't added this to her new reality, I think it's about time that she does.