Like we never loved before 4

[Nature Girl]

Hi mimi,

Glad to "see" you! Of course we all wish it was under better circumstances, but you do sound strong and well.

Wow, I don't really know what to tell you. I would say that if he is pushing legal things on you, you should at least get your own lawyer. You don't even have to tell him that you have one, but at least a L could let you know your legal rights and also how to stall if that is what you want to do. Unless YOU want a legal separation or need one to protect yourself or your kids financially, then you don't need to file. Make him do the work if that is what he wants.