My 2 cents (and it's the same). Yeah, it was a difficult realization for me to see how dependent I was on W's love and support. Part of being married is receiving this of course but it cannot be the only source of fulfillment and confidence in life.

I know this, but have yet to fully live it.

I spoke to my wife's OM on phone, text messages, email and in the online game where she met him. Funny enough, he's a nice guy AND he ended it (sometimes wish I didn't interfere but I'm not sure I did any additional harm to US).

AND trying to GAL with kids! That was a tough one for me. I suddenly realized that they are part of my life so I've been trying to GALWK (with kids) as well as normal GAL. W can join in anytime she wants. Aside from pumpkin picking, she's been sadly absent.


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Me: 39/W: 37
D13-D11-S8
M/T 14/20

EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07