Couple more things.... does your wife check your myspace page (I bet she's linked, and every time you change your pic, she looks...)? Reason I ask.... there more than a few fetching ladies out there in DB land who have myspace pages that would probably not mind being linked to your page. First step: add me as a friend: http://www.myspace.com/morepolka
All of my friends linked to my myspace page except one (Amy) is a DBer. So go ahead and invite them. You have nothing to lose. Their pictures will look so nice on [i] your [i] myspace page... and if your wife sees this.... hmmm....
Next (and much more importantly), in reading your thread, I sense that you have anchored your happiness to the love and acceptance of your wife. This is dangerous for anybody in any marriage. So, as difficult as it may be, you need to get to the point where you honestly believe that your own happiness is not contingent on the love and acceptance of your wife. You need to get there.
How? Start with those GALs. Go out. You don't have kids, so those of us who do envy the flexibility that you have. Dude, you are out of excuses. None are gonna fly with me.... so go do stuff. Do not sit around the house pouting. Get out and GAL.
