... but in the end, will it really change anything? I *know* there's something going on between my W and OG. Will more details actually change my course of action, or am I only going to upset myself more by filling in more of the blanks?
I'm not sure if the same logic applies to your situation ... but at this point, I don't think knowing more about the actual details of my W's affair will help me make better decisions.
A month ago, W supposedly ended relations and speaking to OG. For a week or two, she was onboard with fixing things and moving forward. She has since started moving in the opposite direction which is why I suspect the contact is continuing. Sordid details I don't need to know, but I think knowing the facts helps to explain some the WAS's actions. To you point though, there are enough small bits of evidence along with my gut feeling to tell me what is really going on.
