The only thing that I have been able to use to get past my W's EA, and the horrible things I've read in their discussions, is my love for her and the honest belief that she is lost. Unfortunately she is no where near thinking that we could ever work at fixing our M. The important thing here, I guess, is that I do and believing she is lost/confused has helped.


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Me: 39/W: 37
D13-D11-S8
M/T 14/20

EA confirmed: 9/13/07
D-Bomb: 9/19/07
OM Gone since 12/18/07
W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07