Thanks B. I have been there and back. I started DBing in May. Stumbled in June, lost my confidence in July, and slid back in August. Once September rolled around, I guess I finally "got it." Actually, I got fed up with being walked on and treated with utter disrespect. I dug deep in my GAL's, started hitting the gym (ran 7 miles today and didn't even lose my wind). I look much better, my gait is confident and I am ready to take on any challenge. Including divorce.
What I am trying to say is that this stuff takes time, and you (and others) need to go at your own pace. Read what others are saying and experiencing.
And you said I am "confident with my decision." It's not really my decision. It was her decision to abandon the marriage. My decision was only to stop focusing on "winning her back," but instead focus on me and the kids.
