So one thing it seems is she still needs or wants "space", hence the continued separation. That to me indicates I need to be carefully not to do too much. If I do too much I risk creating pressure on her. As we know from DBing the last thing you want to do is create pressure on your walk away spouse.
Yet she wants me doing things and I want to be doing them. I just need to find a good balance point for right now and am struggling with that.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
