Plank removed from my eye, too late for WAW? 7

[Heimlich]

Thanks, everyone.

OT, I thought about OM plans as well, after I got off the phone -- that's generally how little I think about that now. Could be. Who knows.

your W needs to realize that the world is not always going to be perfect and changes and adjustments are going to have to be made. Life is not that simple and straightforward.

This is more the issue. She's never been a fly by the seat of her pants gal and needs a schedule to feel in control of her life (that may be overstating it, but not by much).

I guess the other source of aggravation was that I had already outlined to her what I was thinking of doing but was waiting to talk with my dad Sunday or yesterday to confirm plans.

Also forgot to mention that when I said that this is me giving you the space that you want, she said something like, "I don't want to talk about that" or "I don't want to talk about that yet." Note, the space statement was that, a statement. I didn't leave it hanging out there as a "please, please talk to me" piece of bait. Possible opening? Again, who knows.

Still love her. Still not totally detached. But getting closer.

WAW, hang in there with the D. For the first couple of weekends, I dialed up the excursions/fun factor. This last Saturday, we just hung in the apartment mostly. I keep having the feeling that once it settles in that this may be permanent, we'll start seeing more reaction from them. Just have to wait and see.

BD