The boundaries book covers the topic of not having much of a sense of self...
Hiya OT...I couldn't find a topic of yours to post on so sorry Nikki...hijacking for a sec.
I went to the bookshop on the way home from work. I had seen the boundaries book the other week but it was gone this time. However, I found another Anne Katherine book called Where to Draw the Line which looks like the 'sequel' to the boundaries book. I bought it and it looks good so far. I read some of it on the way home on the train.