What do I do with her?

[Mike is Hurtin']

I'm struggling with this decision now. I've only been at this for three months, but it seems like an eternity. It terrifies me that I could keep this up for years and still not get the results we both desire. She has been really distant for the last few weeks and I suspect that she has started talking with the OG again. I'm on the fence as to what my decision should be, but I'm starting to lean towards filing.

I have been on the fence about this too. It's tempting to hire someone to get a little bit more information ...

... but in the end, will it really change anything? I *know* there's something going on between my W and OG. Will more details actually change my course of action, or am I only going to upset myself more by filling in more of the blanks?

I'm not sure if the same logic applies to your situation ... but at this point, I don't think knowing more about the actual details of my W's affair will help me make better decisions.

Cheers,
-- Mike