Oh Mwel I am so sorry to hear all of this. How did you find this out if W did not tell you? I can see you are not handling this well. I was the same way a couple of weekends ago when I found out there may be an OW or at least he is spending time with someone else. I am not really sure what is going on. Anyway you need to just take deep breathes and figure out how this changes everything and what it all means to you. What are your next actions going to be? Is it wise to go up there and confront her? Where did you get your info from? Can you elaborate some for me?
Im not taking this information well at all. I do not want to give up my sources in case my W would ever get on here and read but I do not think she even knows about the site but I do not want to take that risk.. You are the first person who I told this to. This does change everything but why do I still want to forgive her and work on our marriage? Im not sure if it is wise to confront her but I want to see if she will tell me the truth. What do you want me to elaborate? I have always told her that if anyone would cheat on me that I would leave them in a heart beat well, now that it has happened leaving is the last thing that I want to do. She was suppose to come by the apt and get her things but she never did. She said that she ran out of time.
