Oh Mwel I am so sorry to hear all of this. How did you find this out if W did not tell you? I can see you are not handling this well. I was the same way a couple of weekends ago when I found out there may be an OW or at least he is spending time with someone else. I am not really sure what is going on. Anyway you need to just take deep breathes and figure out how this changes everything and what it all means to you. What are your next actions going to be? Is it wise to go up there and confront her? Where did you get your info from? Can you elaborate some for me?
Oh Mwel I am so sorry to hear all of this. How did you find this out if W did not tell you? I can see you are not handling this well. I was the same way a couple of weekends ago when I found out there may be an OW or at least he is spending time with someone else. I am not really sure what is going on. Anyway you need to just take deep breathes and figure out how this changes everything and what it all means to you. What are your next actions going to be? Is it wise to go up there and confront her? Where did you get your info from? Can you elaborate some for me?
Im not taking this information well at all. I do not want to give up my sources in case my W would ever get on here and read but I do not think she even knows about the site but I do not want to take that risk.. You are the first person who I told this to. This does change everything but why do I still want to forgive her and work on our marriage? Im not sure if it is wise to confront her but I want to see if she will tell me the truth. What do you want me to elaborate? I have always told her that if anyone would cheat on me that I would leave them in a heart beat well, now that it has happened leaving is the last thing that I want to do. She was suppose to come by the apt and get her things but she never did. She said that she ran out of time.
I think i just screwed up....i wanted to know if she was cheating on me so I ask some of her friends....now she know what I did, I just phucked myself! I did get her to agree to have a talk with me. still going to ask her for the truth....about everything
Oh no. So she knows that you know or she is mad about you asking. What did her friends say? Did they confirm what you had already heard. So when are you going to talk with her? I think you need to have a plan in place since this is surely going to be a very hard convo for you. Are you ready for this?
Oh no. So she knows that you know or she is mad about you asking. What did her friends say? Did they confirm what you had already heard. So when are you going to talk with her? I think you need to have a plan in place since this is surely going to be a very hard convo for you. Are you ready for this?
Yeah, I am so stupid for doing that. She was really pissed!!! She wanted to know who I contacted and what I said. Her friend did not reply. Well the plan is to talk to her on 11/10 when she comes back to buy a new car (total shocker to me). You're right I need to have a plan, this will be hard for me and I do not know if im ready for this...
OH Mwel Remember you can not listen to most of what they say and she is mad at you right now. I bet you anything she knows you are going to look and see her myspace page and that is why she put those things there. Try not to let them bother you. I know it is hard but hang in there.
So lets try to figure out a plan for you on the 10th? What exactly have you two talked about in regards to this new info you have found out? Did she admit it was true? Are you sure that it is if she has not?
