I am not sure what to say...my H had an A because of our issues - or his issues he could not communicate to me... He regrets the A b/c now he says it feels impossible to forgive himself. Our Retro weekend was good in the fact I am 100% sure the OW is out of his head and heart - his issues now are internal conflicts with his actions of having an A and how it went against his core qualities. But he is so mad at himself and guilt ridden he may never come back to me fully. I have come to terms with this and plan to finish all the post sessions and be a positive force in his life - but only he can resolve this for himself.
Your new attitude is great! You cannot control your H or fix your H (as much as I tried to fix mine) you can only take care of YOU!! Either he wakes up and joins you for the journey or he loses big time!!
Take care! You are doing awesome!!! HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
