mark - I've never posted on your thread, I'm pretty new here - trying to read all that I can. All I can really say is it sounds like you are confident with your decision and have went through he** to get here. Although not the usual focus of this board, it is honestly refreshing to hear your positive outlook on it all, and to see you putting Number One (number one right after your children, of course) at the top. It *has* to be almost a relief to get to this point. Good luck with it all, it sounds like to me you are, and will be, fine. B