You hit it well when you said you would DB but not try. That makes a lot of sense. In essence DB is a very simple concept. Live your life. Worry about things you control. If something isn't working, do something different.
I was actually thinking about this stuff in general on the way to work this morning. Having been through all of this and coming out on the other side, one thing I know I did was to spend too much time thinking and not enough time living. I was guilty too.
Far too much time here is spent thinking about what MLCers, WASs, OMs, and OWs. Far too much time is spent analyzing where the spouse is. Who gives a rat's behind. Do what you need to do for you.
Oh...and to be honest, I think cancelling the mediation session is a good idea. It wasn't going anywhere.
