I don't know, to be honest, I think the key is that they aren't me....He hadn't had alot of experiance before me, and so I think this is some of the problem. It so hard to figure him out, and to be honest I am going to stop, because its driving me crazy. This is something he needs to work through, because if he wants to stay married then he has to. So I hope that he call the C today to make an appt, because I think this is what will help him. I give him all the support I can, I have stood by him, and told him and shown him how much I love him, there is really nothing more that I can do, its all him now. I have to get myself and my life together now, and move on with it.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!